The flowers change with the week. The candles do not; they are the same three, burnt down to different heights.
The ritual
| Takes | Five minutes |
| Needs | Three candles, matches, the day book |
| When | After the washing-up |
How it goes
- Switch off the overhead light first.
- Light the candles from left to right.
- Read the morning’s three lines, tick what happened, and fold the page.
Ticking the list is not a score. Most evenings one of the three is left, and it moves quietly to tomorrow.
